Step#1- Discovering Your Purpose
There is no such thing as a “small” job.
Each function within our society aids our
detailed technical lifestyles and well being.
From a store clerk to a business executive,
each position is an intricate part of the
matrix of our world. We rely on these
functions without even realizing their value
or contribution to our daily activity. Each
person has there place and each person has
their purpose. The key is discovering and
taking the time to find out what exactly you
are to contribute to the world.
What is even more challenging is that often
we are presented with serving multiple roles
in our lives besides just our “purpose.” We
are parents, workers, spouses, and children.
All of which demand time and effort from our
daily lives. What is important though is that
we balance our time and our roles to nurture
our purpose and inner abilities. It takes time
and effort to discover your goals and
ambitions, but it is a quest that need not go
unnoticed.
A common excuse for not nurturing our
talents is that we are too busy with other
activities. When in actuality perhaps we have
over extended our time and resources. Take a
moment to sit down and note what in your life
takes up your time. And then after you make
that list, make a column and mark what is a
priority, what really “has” to be done. Be
sure to note how much personal time you get
outside from all your other responsibilities.
Start out small and see if you can allocate at
least a half hour or an hour of your time a
day devoted to yourself without interruptions.
Use this time to evaluate the path of your
life. Are you doing what you want to be doing
right now? If yes, what could you do to
further your progress? If no, what do you want
to do?
Use free thinking in your evaluation. Free
thinking means there are no limits. You can
dream to be anything you want to be. Think
about what you would like to do whether you
were paid or not. Think about what makes you
feel good as a person. Maybe you like the arts
or maybe you like to work outside. Compare
your aspirations with your current life
situation. Are you close to your goals or are
you far away?
Once you have addressed your aspirations,
make notes in a special notebook dedicated to
just you. It is great to see your ideas take
formation when they hit the paper and also it
is a great way to look at your progress on
days where you may feel there is none. Plus
you will need a notebook for further steps as
well. Feel free to personalize this notebook
and make it attractive for yourself.
Don’t feel guilty for taking this special
time for yourself. Understand that your
commitment to yourself will reflect off onto
others. By bettering yourself, you become
better in all the roles and commitments you
hold. It is when we stop to listen to our true
selves and the nature of our lives that we are
able to create abundance in our environment
and those around us. What you are doing is
investing in a personal foundation.
If you only have a half hour or an hour a
day, make a list of what you want to
accomplish with that time. So once the clock
starts ticking you are ready to be productive
and work on your goals. Time management is
good practice right from the beginning. So
when you do figure out what your purpose is,
you will be ready to use every minute you get
efficiently.
Once you figure out where you want to go or
what direction you want to take in your life,
then take the time to research…
research…research. Research is a crucial
element of developing your career strategy. Go
to the library or do a search online for the
topic you are interested in pursuing. Find out
what tools you will need to start your
purpose. Will you need additional education or
training? Will you need a business loan? Or
will you be using your own personal resources
for the start up? Don’t let money issues stop
your progress. Remember knowledge is the
currency here. There are ways to accomplish
your purpose on little to no funds.
Remember real life purposes take real life
work. Sure some people get lucky, but often
others have to really dedicate themselves to
their success. Have an open mind during this
self evaluation period and the rest will
follow. Most importantly, be patient with
yourself the same way you would be patient
with another person. Secondly, perseverance is
essential in the formula for success. You have
to be willing to make a serious commitment
from day one to yourself. Your ideas may
change form along the way, but at least you
are continuing to reach towards self
fulfillment.
As a summary for this step’s exercise,
write it down, take a pen and paper and make a
personal inventory of your ambitions or the
things that you are good at and enjoy. What do
you feel passion about? What would you want to
do even if you didn’t get paid for it? Second
of all, be honest with yourself. Don’t feel
ashamed or guilty to recognize your talents…
after all that’s what they are there for, to
be recognized. It’s up to you to release them
and share them with others. Make your purpose,
your business.
Artist and inspirational writer Heather J.
Tait began her career as a professional artist
back in 1997 in Morgan Hill, CA. Her style
combines simplicity and complexity. She uses
bold lines with the aid of her Sharpie Marker
and completes the process with splashes of
bright watercolors.
Her work can best be described in its
entirety as inspirational. She has over 160
pieces of all original works with
inspirational quotes that correspond to each
piece.
Her art as well as articles are syndicated
internationally. Her work has been featured in
the Spire Press (New York, NY), the Gutenburg
Litegraphic Society (Salt Lake City, UT), Tony
Awards (Atlanta,GA) and the FOX Theater (Atlanta,GA)
to name a few.
She was also recently inducted into the
Who’s Who of American Women 2004-2005--the
definitive biographical resource featuring the
most accomplished women in all areas of human
endeavor.
She is also the founder of Silence Speaks
International Artist Association and Intrigue
Magazine which works to promote artists and
writers.
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