It
was the best of times. It was the worst of times. If you’re
familiar with the universal Law of Polarity, you understand that
for every condition there must be a polar opposite.
In order to have hot, you must have cold. In
order to be light, there must be dark. One cannot exist without
the other.
Since there must be a yin to every yang,
so it goes with home-based business.
The good times are what make home business
the most exciting, invigorating and rewarding experience possible.
The bad times are a true test of the
entrepreneur’s strength and character.
As a home-based business owner, you must
accept the fact that there will be challenges on your journey.
Deals may fall through, things may go slower than you hope, and
there will be times when you think the dragon has beat you.
The important thing to remember is that no
situation is permanent unless you allow it to be.
During challenging times, can you “feel”
the impact on your body?
Is your breathing shallower? Do you stop
eating healthy and revert to bad habits? Do you stop exercising
and find yourself slumped in your office chair trying to muddle
through the problem?
Do you hang your head and avoid looking at
people?
The mind and body form a strong
connection. When you have negative thoughts, your body reflects
how they make you feel.
Likewise, how you hold your body also
affects your thoughts.
When you find yourself in a negative
state, one of the quickest and easiest ways to break free is to
change your physiology.
You have full control over your thoughts
and your actions, so if you find yourself feeling out of synch or
beaten by the events in your life or business, practice these five
simple exercises to give yourself a much needed break and a safety
line to hold onto as you pull yourself up.
1. Adjust your posture - Slumped shoulders
and a down turned head indicate lack of confidence, disinterest,
feelings of futility, etc. Straighten your back, hold your head up
and walk with purpose. Practice this for five minutes. Walk around
your home, office or wherever you are for five full minutes with a
straight spine and looking straight ahead. You will quickly
discover that it is impossible to hold negative thoughts and
feelings while your body is a confident and positive position.
2. Take ten deep breaths – By simply
taking ten slow, deep breaths and focusing on each one, you should
immediately feel your tightened muscles release and relief from
whatever it is that is creating your stress. Do this as often as
you must to release the tension in your muscles. It will allow you
to think more clearly and from a more positive viewpoint.
3. Get moving! - If you spend hours on end
hunched over a keyboard, get up and do jumping jacks, pedal your
bike around the block or swim laps in your pool. One exercise I’ve
created for myself is skipping. Every day I commit to go outside
and skip 300 times. It doesn’t take long, gets the heart racing
and blasts away stale and negative energy.
4. Look at the ceiling and smile the
biggest smile you can. - A study conducted on manic-depressives
who performed this exercise, proved they couldn’t regain their
depressed state unless they brought their head down and wiped the
smiles from their faces.
5. Pick up the pace. – If you find moving
at a snail’s pace, pick it up. Instead of dragging your feet, see
how long it takes you to walk from one point to another, then try
to beat it. If it takes you five steps to get from your desk to
your photocopier, cut it down to two or three. Create a game
around it.
When you’re excited, happy and in a
positive space you carry yourself in a certain way.
Recreate the physiological equivalents and
you create the matching emotional states.
Commit to the above exercises, maintain
focused action and attention on your business, and fast track your
return to entrepreneurial bliss.
2007 © Laurie Hayes - The HBB Source
Laurie Hayes, founder and director of The
HBB Source, helps freedom seekers cross the bridge from employee
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