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The Telephone Doctor
Getting
Maximum Value From The Six Touch Points Of
Communications
Are you aware of all
the 6-touch points of communications? The 6 ways you
can enhance or foul up a business or a personal
relationship? You should be familiar with them all.
Let’s go over each point...because throughout the
day, both in business and our home life, we all have
the ability to "touch" people in a variety of ways.
And with each point there are pros and cons. Here we
go.
Touch Point #1
- The phone. And not just your business or home
phone. Your cell phone too. Telephone Doctor surveys
show that more than 80% of all business transactions
involved a phone call at one point. The telephone is
what’s known as a ‘synchronous’ method of
communication. And what that means is - you’re in
sync with the person you’re communicating with. You
can have a simultaneous two-way exchange of
information. Both parties need to be communicating
at the same time for maximum effectiveness.
That doesn't mean you
need to agree with the person you’re talking with,
but, more importantly, you both are able to
communicate immediately. The best part of the
telephone touch point is the ability to hear the
tone of voice being used. That stimulates the
listener’s imagination--almost like the radio.
On the phone, we have
no sight. Just sound. And, how we perceive those
sounds makes a whole lot of difference. So tone of
voice is critical with the first touch point. Two
people can say the same thing to one person...and
yet the listener can hear it differently from each.
All that being said,
the telephone is a very effective and popular method
of communication (providing you've reached your
called party). Gets answers quickly. Responds
rapidly. As you might imagine, this ‘touch point’ is
one of my personal favorites. (I don't even want
caller ID. Takes all the fun out of a phone call.)
Touch Point #2
- Email. Ah yes, the beloved email. Well, that’s
"asynchronous." Meaning you communicate one-way
information, one direction at a time. And you may
not get immediate communication back. With email,
you have relinquished interpretation of the tone of
voice to the other person. What you write can be
"heard" whatever way they want to hear it. This can
be dangerous. Remember, email etiquette is new. (You
can read more about it on the Telephone Doctor
RESOURCE page.) However, suffice to say when we
email something, it needs to be short, sweet and to
the point.
Plus, it needs to be
obviously friendly. It’s a delivery method that has
the ability to "sit" for hours...sometimes days
without an answer.
(When to meet rather
than use email? A client of ours told us once, "when
there are more than 2 emails on the same subject
back and forth, it’s time for a face-to-face
meeting." ) That’s easy to say for those of us who
work in the same area; however, if your emails are
international or even regional, your emails are your
critical "touch point."
Be careful in your
emails. Many hurt feelings have come about due to
insensitive writing. That’s a good place to practice
all your ‘please and thank you’s.’ Short, terse,
one-word answers are perceived as "rude." (In any
touch point.)
Touch Point #3
- Voice Mail. Again, this is an "asynchronous" means
of communication. You can leave a voice message for
someone...and when you get an answer, if ever, is up
to him or her...not you. And it’s not instantaneous,
as is speaking with someone on the telephone. So
here again, your voice mail needs to be special.
As we've said many
times, there are 3 types of voice mails. Poor -
average - and great. When you leave a voice mail,
make it a great one. Remember, you get to use your
tone of voice. That’s a real plus. Your listener can
hear the laughter, the smile and the tone. Use it to
your advantage. (Again, our Telephone Doctor website
RESOURCE page has a voice mail article that will
help you in making all your messages great.)
Touch Point #4
- Snail Mail (US Mail, UPS, FedEx, etc). Things like
letters or package delivery. These are some of the
original forms of business communication. And we've
used it and continue using it as a great method of
communication. As is true with emails, though,
(remove the word because) the written word can be
miscommunicated very easily. So email, voice mail
and snail mail, (remove phrase: so to speak) are
very similar when communicating. All are
"asynchronous." You wait for an answer.
Touch Point #5
- The Fax Machine. Remember when that method of
communicating came on the scene? Seems we didn’t
know how we operated without it. And today, it
trails sadly behind the other touch points. Yet,
it’s still there, and being used. Just not as much
or as often. And a reminder, again, it is
‘asynchronous’. One-way information; waiting for an
answer.
Touch Point #6
- Face-to-Face Communications. Obviously this needs
little, if any, explanation. When we communicate in
a face-to-face situation, we have it all. Sight,
sound, tone of voice, facial expressions, body
language - the entire package. Just like television.
It’s the ultimate "synchronous" touch point.
Maintaining eye
contact is key in this special touch point. Those
that will not make eye contact while communicating
with us are sometimes judged "suspicious." We
suspect that they may be hiding something.
Beware, too, in a
face-to-face situation that your head doesn't look
as though it’s on a spindle. Focus on the person, or
people, you’re talking with. They deserve your full
attention. And you'll find you soon notice, when
someone is talking with you if they’re concentrating
on you and the topic...or if their eyes are
wondering around looking elsewhere - anyplace but
with you.
And yet, with all
these touch points and helpful hints...we often
still "miscommunicate." In our work place, we most
probably use all 6 touch points many times a day. A
few simple guidelines can help us focus on which
touch point to use when. And how to make them work
FOR us and not against us:
- Telephone - If you reach your called
party...GREAT. That’s immediate. It’s also good
for leaving messages - that don’t need an
immediate answer. If you need immediate action,
try to reach another person. The telephone is only
‘synchronous’ when you have reached the called
party.
- Voice Mail - That would be ‘asynchronous.’
Leaving messages that will be returned when the
called party decides to return it (if ever).
- Email - Again, one-way communication. Keep it
short, sweet and to the point. Use your manners.
Remember, one word answers are perceived as rude.
- Courier - Still a great way to communicate.
But be careful with the written word. Keep in mind
how possible miscommunications might occur. More
than once, words have come back to haunt the
writer.
- Fax - For those that still use this method of
communication, one pagers are appreciated. And
again, written words needs to be checked and
double-checked to be sure it won’t be
misunderstood.
- Face-to-Face - The ultimate method of
communication. Immediate reaction, tone, sight,
sound and body language. Total "SYNCHRONOUS"
communication. And that smile or handshake makes
it all worthwhile!
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