Communication and PatternsWhat happens in
communication?
In a very simplistic model, communication is made up of
formulating a message and sending it to an intended audience,
irrespective whether he or she needs or even wants the
message, or not.
Giving presentations is a very common form of conveying a
message and a great deal of effort is put into preparing a
presentation before actually giving it because the sender has
the desire that he or she wants to be heard. The person
preparing and giving the presentation (not always the same
person!) use his or her perception of the audience as well as
what message should be conveyed. Then, the more stunning a
presentation is, it is hoped that the message will be conveyed
even better. Potentially unproductive hours can be spent on
"designing the slides" hoping that the audience "will hear
what I have to say". Or, if time is at a premium, to take some
existing presentation and to somehow reshape it to fit the
forum.
Let us challenge this perception
The audience has several options:
a) to listen and act
b) not to listen an not to act, to ignore
c) not to listen but to act anyway, usually not in the
desired or intended fashion
d) unable to listen (technically then, not a captive
audience)
e) unable to act because he / she is not empowered to
In all the above scenarios, except the first, there is a
potential conflict between the person sending the message and
the intended recipient of the message.
This leaves the sender with four options:
a) to accept this, (which begs the question, why was it
done in the first place)
b) to try and influence the recipient so that he or she
"gets the message"
c) keep repeating the message, on and on and on and....
d) change the message
All these options can be deemed as unsatisfactory as they
are in their nature inefficient. They either focus on the
person or the message. In fact, the message could be the right
one, the person may be the right recipient, but the
combination of both may be the cause of the problem.
So, is there an alternative?
Basically yes, but it is not easy to come by. There are no
quick wins!
In finding the alternative, you need to analyse:
the message itself, the resulting action, the persons, how,
where and when the message was conveyed and the value added of
the message. In short, you need to analyse the entire
environment surrounding the message.
The information you take from this "experience" can be
collected and analysed for patterns. As a result, the
following can be deduced:
any common denominator
any contradictions
any activity which recurs at regular intervals which
somehow impacts your message.
When you have recognised such patterns, and more
importantly, recorded them, then they can be used to help you
prepare the ground better for you to convey your message more
effectively.
Of course, this is often done in debriefing sessions, but
often done instinctively and the result is that organisations
often have many "impressions" but no real tangible information
on what impact any intended communicating of a message
actually has.
Finding the patterns
Gathering the information needed is challenging, especially
in a complex organisation. So it is important to start in ones
immediate environment and gradually let consecutive circles
work into the rest of the organisation.
The success of this lies in the acceptance of such a method
and the willingness to invest in the time to do such an
exercise. Usually, an outside organisation can be far more
effective here. All data is collected and processed and this
will reveal certain patterns.
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Frank Peters, Director of Training, Business Speak Ltd
helps individuals and organisations in all aspects of
project communication and business facilitating.
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