| Recently,
I watched a You Tube extract from the Christian Film
called 'Facing The Giants'. The film is about a high
school American Football team that achieves their goals
after the coach, Grant Taylor, starts praying to God and
begins to demand the best from his players whether they
win or lose. Dan
Reeves, a great player and head coach in professional
American Football, gave the film his seal of approval.
He also commented:
"If you're not a
Christian, it will still appeal to you. It's all about
life."
In the You Tube
extract, Brock, one of the team, sounds defeatist about
their next match. Coach Taylor calls him out and tells
him to do the death crawl i.e crawl up the field on his
hands and feet with a player lying on his back (back to
back).
Brock asks the coach if
he wants him to crawl 30 yards up the field. The coach
replies that he thinks Brock can go 50 yards. Brock says
he could do 50 yards but without anyone on his back. The
coach does not agree:
"I think you can do 50
with Jeremy (another player) on your back but even if
you can't I want you to promise me you will give me your
best."
"OK"
"You're going to give
me your best?"
"I'm going to give you
my best."
"One more thing - I
want you to do it blindfolded."
"Why?"
"I don't want you
giving up at a certain point when you can go further."
Jeremy gets on Brock's
back and off they go.
The coach gives
constant encouragement and inspiration. He never stops
talking so that negative thoughts cannot enter Brock's
mind:
"Give me your best.
They're you go, Brock. That's it - a good start. A
little bit left. A little bit left. That's it. There you
go, Brock."
"Are we at the 20 yet?"
"Forget the 20. You
give me your best; you keep going. Don't stop!"
"I want to rest a
second"
"Keep moving; keep
moving; keep driving. Your very best; your very best.
Keep going. There you go. There you go. Don't quit. Keep
your knees of the ground. Don't quit till you got
nothing left. Keep going; keep going. I want everything
you got. You keep going. You're doing good. You keep
going. It's all heart from here. You promised me your
best. It's all heart. Come on Brock. Give me more. You
promised me your best. 20 more steps."
Brock is groaning in
agony but is still moving forward. Jeremy is managing to
stay on his back. The coach never lets up:
"Keep going. Don't
quit. Don't quit. You don't quit on me. You keep going.
10 more steps. 10 more. 10 more. Keep going."
"I can't."
"You can. You can. 2
more! 1 more!"
Brock collapses and
gasps: "It's got to be the 50."
"Look up, Brock. You're
in the end zone!"
Brock looked up in
total amazement. He had crawled 100 yards across the
entire field. His team mates had stopped laughing and
joking a long time before. They had gradually got to
their feet and walked slowly after him. They looked on
in awe from further down the field.
The coach wanted to
make the most of the moment:
"Brock - you are the
most influential player on this team. If you walk around
defeated so will they. Don't tell me you can't give me
more than I've been seeing. You just carried a 140 pound
man across this whole field on your arms. Brock, I need
you. God's gifted you with the ability of leadership.
Don't waste it. Can I count on you?"
"Yes."
Jeremy had been trying
to interrupt for a while.
"What is it, Jeremy?"
"I weigh 160 pounds!"
Brock had done his best
and had achieved excellence in the death crawl at least.
He was now a role model and inspiration for the rest of
his team. However, he would not have achieved his best
without the help of his coach who expected and demanded
the best from him.
John Steinbeck put it
well:
“It is the nature of
man to rise to greatness, if greatness is expected of
him.”
Coach Taylor expected
Brock's best and if anyone gives their best they may
well achieve greatness. Mike Brescia has pointed out the
fact that if you give your best, you will become the
best since so few people give their best. Give your best
and you will become a leader. You will have the power to
make a difference.
The Coach extracted a
firm commitment from Brock to do his best and
blindfolded him so that he would not accept any
artificial limitations on his own power. He then
encouraged and urged him to do his best. He expected him
to do his best.
He kept up a non stop
flow of positive words which did not allow Brock to
harbor any negative thoughts for long. His encouragement
became more intense as Brock felt more and more pain.
The coach ended up on
his knees as he encouraged Brock's huge effort and at
the end of the field he, too, was flat out on the
ground. The best go the extra mile and are not content
with mediocrity, or even the good. Both the coach and
Brock gave their best.
The best believe they
can achieve big goals. They welcome competition because
they know that competition will keep them from getting
lazy. They welcome competition because it will help them
discover the huge reservoirs of power and ability inside
themselves.
The best decide what is
the best thing to do and do it first. Chris Widener puts
it in a nutshell:
"The best have habits
and discipline that get them to the top by doing the
best things and doing them first."
You and I may not have
coaches like Grant Taylor to drive us on. We may have to
be our own coaches. This is not so bad. We can model
ourselves on coaches like Taylor.
We can expect the best
from ourselves. We can constantly challenge ourselves to
do better and to keep going when we feel like giving up.
We can use the techniques of non-stop positive talk,
affirmations and visualizations of success to shut out
any negative thoughts that may pop into our minds.
We can read
motivational articles, books and ebooks. We can listen
to motivational audio and watch motivational video. I'll
list the url of the You Tube extract in the resource box
at the end of this article so you can inspire yourself
with this brief story again and again. Better still buy
the DVD of the entire film 'Facing The Giants.'
I'll have to wait till
April before it is released in the UK but I have already
preordered the DVD. If the extract about Brock's death
crawl is anything to go by, the rest of the film should
be highly inspirational and powerfully motivational.
Be your own coach and
aim to be the best you can be. You will become a leader
and begin to make a big difference not only to your self
but to others.
Welcome any competitors
in your field. Do not let them depress you. They will
push you to make the most of your abilities. Make sure
your self talk is positive and don't ever quit on
yourself. You can achieve almost any goal you set your
mind to. Don't settle for the mediocre or even the good
when you have the ability to achieve the best - the
ability to achieve excellence.
Face up to the giants
like fear and procrastination that might be holding you
back from achieving your goals. Ask for help from God or
the universe and, like David of old, destroy your
Goliaths and live a life of victory and excellence.
John Watson is an award
winning teacher and 5th degree blackbelt martial arts
instructor. He has written several ebooks on motivation
and success topics. One of these can be found at
http://www.motivationtoday.com/36_laws.php
You can check out the
you tube extract at
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-vB59PkB0eQ
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