Before You
think Your Next thought
Copyright © 2004 Harald Anderson
Every thought
we think is creating our future. - Louise L. Hay
Researchers have discovered that the average person thinks
anywhere between 50,000 to 70,000 thoughts per day. Since the
majority of us spend anywhere from 16-18 hours awake each day,
we think a thought on average about every 1.1 seconds. That’s
a whole lot of thinking going on. With this much thinking
taking place there is nothing more important than to focus
that energy on a meaningful goal that targets your objective.
Whether you are an individual or business manager looking to
improve your own condition, the GOAL is the instrument that
puts order and purpose into all of this thought energy. Your
thoughts lead to action. Your actions create habits. And the
habits of your life will determine your ultimate destiny.
The principal premise of the personal development movement is
that thoughts become things and that we get whatever we focus
upon most. The questions that I think are worth asking are:
a) If thoughts are our currency for acquiring what we want,
then what is it that you are spending your currency on?
b) Are you getting a good deal?
c) Are you experiencing the life you deserve?
I have yet to meet someone who claims to like setting goals.
Most of us have tried goal setting at some point in our life
and failed and just decided it was too much of a hassle. When
we come to realize that the goal is comparable to a canvas for
an artist we then begin to recognize the importance of goals
in channeling our energy towards a desired purpose. The 60,000
thoughts are going to be there day in and day out. It would
make good sense to focus those thoughts to an area that would
result in a marked improvement of your life.
We are all familiar with the retail buying experience. We walk
into a store. Locate the merchandise we want. Pay for it. Take
it home. I submit that we engage in this exact same experience
in designing our lives. Problem is that when our lives are not
going the way we want we are unwilling to admit that we
created that condition. It takes a great deal of courage to
admit that our belief system might need some rewiring if we
are not leading the lives we want.
Look around you right now at your surroundings. Everything
that you own is a product of your thoughts. Likewise,
everything that you don’t own is a product of your thoughts.
Some quality thoughts are considered “too expensive” to even
consider contemplating so we never even entertain them. When
is the last time that you reminded yourself how “awesome” you
are in spite of whatever problems are lurking in your life?
So we often spend our time with the thoughts that are most
real to us and the thoughts that we know we can afford. Funny
thing is that we have a budget of 60,000 thoughts each day to
create whatever we want. In spite of that possibility so much
of humanity traps itself in the “closeout thoughts aisle” and
then wonders why life has become a battle for basic survival.
Here are a few of the more famous closeout aisle thought
patterns:
“It’s just the way I am. I can’t help it.”
”I can’t control what I think.”
“They are just thoughts for Gods sake! That doesn’t matter!”
”I just feel that way and there is nothing I can do about it.”
The reality is that we CAN help it. There is no more important
skill in life than learning to control the focus of our mind.
In so doing, we can literally change our destiny. Every
decision you make stems for the viewpoint of what you think
you are and the value you place upon yourself. In the blink of
an eye you can change your beliefs of what is possible and
recognize that those limitations you encounter are all part of
a flawed belief system.
I spent about thirty minutes trying to log my thoughts. Within
minutes I discovered that my focus was literally “all over the
universe.” Hundreds of disjointed thoughts entered and left my
consciousness in a matter of minutes. Trying to keep track of
them all was an exercise in futility. What this simple
exercise taught me though was to understand the importance of
goals. A goal certainly adds a focus and structure to
thinking. The more ambitious the goal the more it forces us
out of the “closeout aisle” and into the realization that the
biggest obstacle in our lives is usually ‘us.’ The one thing I
can guarantee you is that you will spend your thought budget
every single day. Consciously or unconsciously you will think
one thought every 1.1 seconds. With this being the case don’t
you think it might be a good idea to make a concerted effort
to focus your attention on the things that you want to create?
Isn’t that the entire purpose behind having goals? Isn’t that
the entire purpose to happy living?
A good friend of mine is working diligently on expanding his
business. The one thing he is focused on is understanding that
his growth in the past was a direct result of his thinking.
Now as he confronts the future he recognizes that his thinking
has become the obstacle to getting to the next level.
Interesting dilemma isn’t it? You want to grow but you have to
be willing to change your thoughts to do so.
Sounds real easy until you have to confront this issue
yourself.
The one question that he reiterates to me every time we speak
is…
“What would a person have to believe and think about regularly
to experience this?”
I have no doubt that within this question lies all the wisdom
that an individual or organization would ever need to be able
to achieve whatever they wanted.
“What would a person have to believe and think about regularly
to experience this?”
As I started asking myself that question I began to uncover
counterproductive illusions about beliefs, ideas and thoughts
that I nurture without even realizing it. Maybe you can
relate? It reminds of the comment Mark Twain once made when he
said, “I have been through some really terrible stressful
things in my life..........some of them which actually
happened.”
The secret of business success is ridiculously simple. So much
so that we often dismiss it. What thoughts have you planted
that are creating your current experience? What illusions do
you regularly entertain that prevent you from being
responsible for every area of your life? You can blame others
for the unhappiness you feel, or you can take responsibility
for your life. But you cannot do both. You must make a choice.
The 'divinity that shapes your destiny' is you!
Every day for the rest of your life you will think roughly
60,000 thoughts. Unless you focus that energy into some
meaningful purpose you are doing yourself a huge disservice.
Set ambitious goals for yourself and you will be well on your
way to choosing the best thoughts energy can buy! The focus
that this will create in your life will speak volumes. A
question that will assist you in this regard whenever you
experience a setback is:
“What would a person have to believe and think about regularly
to experience this?”
Think about what you think about, before you think that next
thought!
Be careful with what you agree with!
Harald Anderson is the co-founder of Artinspires.com a leading
online gallery of motivational posters and inspirational
prints.“When Art Inspires, Dreams Become Realities. His goal
in life is to become the kind of person that his dog already
thinks he is.
http://www.artinspires.com/