Ask for More - You May Get More
By Graham Yemm
If you are involved with
sales, how do you feel when you hear phrases such as, “Can you do
anything about your price?” or, “You’ll have to do better than
that.” and variations on these? Does a cloud or two cross the sun?
You start to think, “here we go again…..” – yet, have you prepared
for this situation?
As a purchaser, do you push
suppliers on price alone? OK, it is a fair tactic when so many
sellers will give in, but does it lead to long-term gain? What other
ways could you get a better deal for your organisation? Maybe
extended credit terms or volume rebates?
Whichever side you are on, what
difference could 2% make to your company? Just to get another 2% on
a selling price – and/or 2% less on your purchases? How much extra
profit will this produce?
Developing your ability to
negotiate more firmly and flexibly is not a contradiction in terms,
it can be the foundation for increasing business success and also
improving relationships. The simple definition of negotiation is:
“To work or talk (with others) to achieve a transaction, settlement,
an agreement. (from Latin negotiari – do business with)”
Typically, there are four options
for the outcome of a negotiation – and the desired one is the
“win-win” unless you are just going for a one-off deal and you may
want to opt for the “I win – you lose” choice, although that is not
really necessary!
We can all improve ourselves as
negotiators by following a few simple steps and treating situations
as more than just a bargaining joust. It will also help your cause
if you consider situations as something to be resolved and not as a
battle to be won! As with many things in life, the key to success is
in the planning and preparation. This will impact your confidence,
and behaviour, when with the other party. The more prepared you are,
the greater the chance of you achieving the deal you want.
One of the first things to consider
in your planning stage is “the balance of power”. Imagine a set of
scales – and list the pressures or drivers each side faces:
I wonder what you find? Many
similarities? When you recognise that both sides might be facing
similar pressures you can take heart! Another way to use this is to
assess what drivers the other party is facing, and you can do to
reduce the ones on your side to increase the “leverage” you have.
To help you with planning and
handling negotiations you may find it useful to work through the
“AIMING HIGH” process.
AIMING HIGH
A ssess: Consider situation,
balance of power, leverage. What is going to be needed for a win/win
outcome. What is the previous experience with this contact? How much
do you need the deal – how much do they need it? What might be the
barriers? What have you to offer that is unique?
I nterests: What are your
needs, wants and desires? What are theirs? Think about their
interests – put yourself in their shoes – what do they need – what
are their drivers (business and personal)?
M ake time: Planning and
preparation is key – create time for it. Do not be rushed – do not
negotiate under (or “un”) prepared. Also, make time for the actual
meetings – time pressure can be a problem in a negotiation – the
party feeling under most pressure will often make the biggest moves.
I nnovate: Remember, it is
not just “their” problem – if a genuine negotiation is to take place
it is a joint one! Think about – then rethink – “the pie” and how it
can be shaped and cut. Look got different ways of approaching the
situation.
N eeds: What are their key
needs – and wants – and objectives? What are yours? Check back that
your ideas can satisfy these – for both parties.
G enerate options: Put your
package together – consider all the tradable items – those you want
and those you can give. The more options the better. Whether the
buyer or the seller, think about the package in terms of more than
price.
H uman factors: Even when
being at your most objective and professional – the negotiation is
still usually between two (or more) people. Your interpersonal
skills count for a great deal: – how well you can assess the others;
what they want and are doing; your skills in gaining rapport and
getting them to talk; good listening – and questioning. Also,
handling tough situations and managing the dynamics of the meetings
is key.
I ntegrity: Do not get
caught up in game playing. Good negotiations will normally be taking
place in the context of (or at the start of) an on-going business
relationship and partnership. It does not matter what others may do
– operate with integrity and be true to yourself and your values.
You will get more good quality deals in the long run.
G et before you give: Trade
well – ask for what you want BEFORE you give!
H appy endings! Aim for
win/win – and if you cannot get that leave the door open for another
time!
If you follow this process you will
be well-equipped to negotiate effectively. You will be more
confident and successful if you make time to work at developing the
package you are offering and, at the same time think about what you
want from the other party. Think about the things you can build into
your package that you can use to “trade” with. (Called variables or
currency or other terms to suit!) What might be the things the other
party has which they would be happy to “trade” or move on? The key
to this, is to choose things which are of low cost to you, but
valuable to the other party – and vice versa. Remember, in a
negotiation, everything has a value, no matter how insignificant it
might seem at the time!
As part of this, plan your “best
deal”, ie the ideal solution for you, and your “worst deal”, ie the
lowest position you will take. It is important that you are clear
about this – and know when to walk away! Within your best deal,
include as many variables as possible so that you have things to
trade with other than price. Think about what you will be willing to
give, and more importantly, what you want to get in return!
The actual approach to the meeting
can be improved if you follow the principles of “Triangle Talk” from
Kare Anderson’s book “Getting What You Want”. Be clear about what
you want, what they want and then keep your proposal tuned towards
what they can accept.
When you are through the
“proposing” stage and in what many think is the actual negotiation
or bargaining stage, it is important to remember a simple phrase and
it is all about “get” then “give”. “If you……..then I will……..”.
Think about the impact of the opposite order, “If I……then will
you…….?” What will an experienced negotiator do in response to
that?
To help yourself with negotiations,
practise! Look for opportunities in low-key situations and test out
ways of getting a deal. Before going to meet that important client
or major supplier, as part of your preparation make some time to go
over your plan, your package and the options, and then how the other
party might act. Practice using the “get-give” trading phrase – and
anticipate potential problems. You will be pleasantly surprised by
the results you get.
Graham Yemm a founding partner of
Solutions 4 Training Ltd. During his years as a consultant he has
worked with a variety of major companies in the U.K., Europe, USA,
the Middle East and Russia in Sales, People and Management Skills.
He has had many years of experience tailoring programmes to address
organisational issues around sales, account management,
negotiations, sales management and customer service – especially
focusing on the communication and personal skills aspects.
Graham is a Master
Practitioner of NLP and was involved with setting up and
running “The Business Group”, which promotes uses of NLP in
organisations. He is an accredited trainer for the LAB
profile programme – “Words that Change Minds”. His personal
enjoyment comes from helping individuals to take more
responsibility for their own actions– freeing them to feel
they can make more choices about their lives. Contact,
http://solutions4training.com/ or +1483 480656
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